“In life, things happen for a reason and divorce is one of those life events that just doesn’t happen by accident. Many couples find themselves wondering should we break up as a result of ongoing relationship problems. Marriage counseling can certainly help to provide answers. In today’s day and age, more marriages end in divorce, I’ve compiled a list of the top ten “symptoms” or reasons why divorce happens.”
And guess what? Cheating is NOT on the list.
If you think that sexual infidelity is the leading cause of divorce, you’ve got it all wrong. We polled over 100 YourTango Experts to see what they say are the top reasons married couples decide to split, and, believe it or not, communication problems came out on top as the number one reason marriages fail.
Here are some other culprits our experts blame for the alarmingly high divorce rate:
1. You jumped into marriage for all the wrong reasons
Marrying for money — we’ve all heard that that is a ticket to a quick divorce — but what about when you marry because it’s what you think you should do?
I’ve met many divorced women who say the problems that made them leave were there right from the beginning but “everyone expected us to live happily ever after” or “we had already spent so much money on the wedding” or “we had just built our dream home.” So, remember, until you say “I do,” you always have the choice to say “I don’t!”